sometimes i like being single much more than being with a girlfriend

now if i had to chose i probably pick the relationship but one thing that particularly annoys me when i having a girlfriend is that i tend to usually have quiet attractive girlfriends and when i go do with them anything where other men are around i can sense them lusting for them. its even worse now that men are consuming so much porn and objectifying literally any woman out there in their mind. sometimes i just love how i am being ignored as a 46 year old bald untrained man without flashing any luxury whatsoever and just avoiding people