sounds like he is capricorn or a similar sign ;-) i would love to talk to you and help you along the way.. i am incredibly intuitive and smart in spiritual things and helped many people :-)
Lets discuss this :-)
my skype is: danieltravolto if you like
obviously he is trying to express something which he is only capable to express in the violent realm. i think its important to open a way to communicate with him when he is the most calm like when going to sleep.
He is an Aquarius just like his Mama and a Capricorn father. Definitely an erratic dynamic here!
Aquarius are good entrepreneur signs... as CEOs and definitely go-getters... so this energy is definitely natural. just needs to be channeled differently :-)